What parts of your identity have had the greatest influence on the person you are today? Have you ever felt pressure to change, hide, or emphasize a part of yourself in order to fit in?

 I think a part of my identity would be my hair, and face or the way i dress, when you look at me you think i might do something in the beauty industry and its because i do and i think it helps me express what i love and want to do as my future career. When people first look at you they see your outside and when your presenting business you want people to know you know what your doing. When i was younger I felt as though i've always stood out and have wanted to fit in with social standards at schools but i knew deep down i wanted to look different or i didn't like the styles other girls would wear because i knew that wasn't me and i've come to terms with that.

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